Monday, November 8, 2021

Why Do You Give?

In late 2001 – about this time of year, actually - I accepted a position as the director of a housing agency in Tacoma that worked with families and children experiencing homelessness. We had an emergency shelter and apartments where families could live, receive services, and get back on their feet. This was a few years before I felt called to seminary.

After being at my job only a few weeks, a woman walked into the shelter one day and asked to see the director.  She was interested in knowing more about us and asked if I would show her around our facility.  We were in an old Catholic school that had been closed for years.  We had lots of space, but the building was run down and looked pretty drab and gray.  One of the classrooms had been turned into a family room for our shelter families but it was dreary.  The furniture was torn and broken-down, the walls were an old 50’s classroom color, sorely in need of fresh paint.  There were very few toys for the children.  It didn’t look very welcoming.  But when I looked, I saw what it could look like and as I showed Jane around (that was actually her name!), that’s what I described.  Fresh paint, soothing colors, new furniture, lots of toys and books…..  As we walked around the shelter I told her about our programs, the families that called this home and how and why families become homeless. After the tour, we went into my office where we talked a little longer.  We spent over an hour together.  When Jane was ready to leave, she pulled out her checkbook and said that she wanted to make a donation.  I could see the compassion in her eyes as she told me how disturbed she had been to recently read in the newspaper that so many children were homeless for the holidays, and she wanted to make sure that these families were taken care of.  

 

When you work for a non-profit you are always thrilled when someone wants to make a donation, but I was speechless when Jane handed me a check for $5,000.  $5,000!  Jane’s gift would make a huge difference in our ability to help families.  Her gift was completely unexpected and as a staff, we celebrated the blessing of this large gift.  We were ecstatic.  $5,000 was a significant boost to our budget. With her gift, we could pay December rent for nearly 100 homeless families.   Jane saw a need, had the financial means, and made a financial gift that made a difference in the lives of a lot of families that Christmas.  I could see the joy on Jane’s face when she handed me that check.  She had compassion for children in need and she was able to do something about it.  What a blessing!

 

Two weeks later – almost to the day – a client came in and asked to see me.  Maria was a single mom with 3 young children.  She had been in the shelter for almost four months. We had just moved Maria and her children into an apartment at the beginning of the month – just a few weeks after I started my job and I had only met her once before. Marie had become homeless because she lost everything when she fled a dangerous, violent relationship. Marie was excited to have an apartment for her children.  She was working at McDonalds and taking classes at a community college while juggling the care of her children.  She was working really hard to get back on her feet. 

 

Maria seemed incredibly excited to see me and some of the staff followed her into my office – we could all tell that something was up!  Maria handed me an envelope and said, “Merry Christmas!” and she stood there and just

grinned.

 

 

I opened the envelope and found a Christmas card that she and her children had signed.  But I also found something I didn’t expect.  Maria had put $10 in the card.  When I looked up, Maria’s eyes were sparkling.  She was so excited.  She said, “I thought about what I could do to let you guys know how thankful I am for the ways you are helping my family.  I couldn’t figure out what to do.  Then when I got my paycheck, I realized that I could make a donation so that you can keep helping families.”  Maria was absolutely beaming.  The joy she had in making this gift was evident all over her face.

 

Now Maria’s $10 donation wasn’t going to do much to help our budget.  But I broke into tears and embraced Maria.  When I looked up, the whole staff was crying.  Maria’s gift meant more to us than I can explain. Every staff member understood the enormity of her gift.  Maria’s $10 gift spoke volumes. Her $10 gift was HUGE.  It was one of those times when you know that God has done something amazing. 

 

Maria knew what it was to be in great need.  She knew what it was like to struggle, to not know how she was going to feed her children or wonder where they would sleep. Her job at McDonald’s didn’t pay much – yet Maria gave from her heart.  Maria was giving out of a heartfelt gratitude because of what she had been through and the help she had received.  When I talk about this – I can still feel all the original emotions even though it’s been 20 years.

 

Who do you relate to?  Perhaps you are like Jane, and you have been

fortunate and can give large financial gifts.  Perhaps you are like

Maria who struggles every day to get by and you can’t give much of a 

financial gift – at least not a gift that you think will make a difference.   

 

I’ve always wished that I could sit down and write out a big check for a cause I believe in or to someone who really needs some help.  But I’ve never been able to.  I am a single mom, and it seems we always struggled to get by.  Maybe that’s why Maria’s gift meant so much to me. 

 

The difference between $5,000 and $10 is pretty big.  But I have to tell you that we thought that both Jane’s and Maria’s gifts were significant.  Both gifts made a HUGE difference in our work that December.  We were equally joyous over both.

 

But the world – our western culture would say differently, I think.  I think the world might not agree that both these gifts were significant.  Our culture tells us that success is measured by money and power.  We look at the big houses, the “important jobs”, the fancy cars and we think they measure success.  Too often, we determine personal worth by who we are and what we have.  Or… by what we aren’t and what we don’t have.

 

Well folks, this is nothing new.  It’s been the same way throughout history. In fact, even in Jesus’ time, importance – worth – value - was determined by who had the power and who had the money.  Maybe that’s why so many of Jesus’ teachings involve power and money. 

 

Jesus is at odds with the religious leaders throughout his ministry.  But it isn’t their positions that offend him or even their wealth.  Being wealthy –

having money is not the issue for Jesus. Jesus never criticizes people solely because they are wealthy.  Jesus criticizes attitudes; he criticizes hearts.  He thinks the religious leaders and rich are ostentatious and arrogant. 

 

They have positions of power and privilege, and they flaunt it.  They are

wealthy, prestigious men who exploit the poor and powerless.  They use their position in ways that demean and harm others.  All in the name of religion.

 

Even the way they dress distinguishes them from the regular folks.  They wear flowing robes - actual full-length prayer shawls with tassels at the four corners. When the scribes and the teachers and the religious leaders walk down the street, everyone is expected to rise out of respect.  When’s the last time you stood at attention when a clergy walked by?!

 

They sit in the most distinguished seats of the synagogue – either up front facing the congregation or on benches along the side while the congregation sits on the floor in the middle of the synagogue.  Jesus doubted that the scribes and other religious leaders were at the temple to worship God.  He thought that they came to the temple to flaunt their positions.  Their attitudes of superiority and arrogance did not endear them to Jesus!  In fact, Jesus’ juxtaposes the scribes, the religious leaders and the rich with the poverty and the insignificance of a widow and her gift.  In today’s Scripture, Jesus turns the economy upside down.

 

Jesus is sitting opposite the place where the offerings were put, and he watches the crowd putting their money into the temple treasury.”  Jesus is sitting in the outer temple – the place where the Jewish women and children are allowed to worship, the second-class citizens.  They aren’t

allowed in the synagogue itself.  The religious leaders and Jewish men pass through this outer court on their way to the inner sanctuary. 

 

 

And it is in this outer court area where the temple treasury is found.  There

were usually 13 – yes thirteen trumpet-like receptacles placed in the temple court!  The temple treasury was the place where dues, taxes, donations of valuable items, and financial gifts were placed.  As people come into the temple to worship, they have plenty of collection boxes to put their temple donations into.  Often the officers in charge of the treasury would “examine” the offerings before they went into the receptacles to verify that the people were giving enough. 

 

The public location of the collection boxes led to pride and greed. Some folks put money in for the wrong reason.  They would give a lot so others would “see” their generosity.  They gave a lot to make an impression on others.  And the poor – well, they were often exploited and humiliated because their gifts were “small”.  

 

But this widow comes to the temple to worship God, and she puts “two very small copper coins, worth only a fraction of a penny”  into one of the collection receptacles.  Think how intimidated this poor widow must have felt going into the temple.  She must have felt like she didn’t belong – a widow had absolutely no social standing.  Her standing in life, her clothes…everything about her must have screamed poverty.  She risked ridicule and humiliation because of the two meager leptas she put into the receptacles – the smallest coins in circulation.  The coins would have clattered against the sides of the collection receptacle. Drop coins.  The sound of the coins she gave would have given away the size of her gift.  Her offering is less than a penny.  Let’s face it - The widow’s offering is

insignificant.   (PAUSE)  Or is it? 

 Now, I need to stop a moment and tell you what this sermon is not about. 

Sometimes this passage is used to criticize the rich and make them feel guilty for all that they have.  Sometimes this passage is used to make people feel guilty that they aren’t giving enough money to the church.  Sometimes this passage is used to manipulate people to give more than they can afford.  “Look at how much the widow gave – everything she had.  If you trust God, you will give “everything you have” to the church.”  Never mind that your children are hungry, your rent is due…. Give what you have to the church and trust God.

 

But I don’t think this is an accurate interpretation of this passage.  Scripture doesn’t manipulate.  So, what is Jesus trying to teach us?

 

Jesus is not critical of the religious leaders and the rich because they have a lot of money.  He isn’t critical because they give large gifts to the temple.  Jesus is critical because the rich are giving out of greed.  The rich compete with one another – who will give the bigger gift?  They show off – wanting everyone to see the stack of bills they put in the collection box. Jesus is critical because the rich in this passage are giving for the wrong reason.  The synagogue – the House of God, this holy place of worship - has become a place of status, of greed, of privilege, of discrimination and ridicule.

 

And…. This is important - Jesus is NOT praising the widow for giving the last of her money.  You see, this passage isn’t really about money.  The Greek text says that “she has put in her whole life.”  She put in her whole

life.  Do you see the difference?  It isn’t that she gives ALL her money or the LAST of her money.  She gives her whole life.  All that she is, she lays

before God.

 

Jesus is not concerned about money for the sake of money.  He isn’t concerned about the amount the widow gives (or the rich for that matter!)  Jesus sees the value of the widow’s gift not as sentimental or a statement against those who can give larger gifts, but the value is in how much of herself she gives.  She has nothing left except to trust in God. And she chooses to trust. The widow is not bitter or angry about her life circumstances – her grief, her poverty.  But instead, she acts – she takes responsibility for her life.  She brings all that she is to worship the God she loves. Her giving was an act of pure worship – she had no other motive.  This woman understands who provides for her needs and she feels gratitude in the midst of tremendous hardship. And as a result, she receives a blessing that no one can take away from her. This poor widow who is humble and generous teaches us about the heart of giving. 

 

How do you think the widow felt when she gave those 2 coins to the temple offering? (PAUSE)  I think she felt joy.   (Pause)  When I think about this story, I think about Jane who had wealth and when she heard there were homeless children and families at Christmas, she made a $5,000 gift.  She didn’t give for recognition or prestige.  She gave from her heart.  I remember the joy in her eyes and the smile on her face.

 

I think about Maria and the way her eyes sparkled when she gave her $10 gift to help other homeless families.  I imagine the widow gave her last penny to God out of gratitude just like Maria gave $10 of her McDonald’s

paycheck to the shelter out of gratitude.  I imagine the widow had a sparkle in her eye, a little skip in her step – a flutter in her heart – a deep felt joy. 

 

This widow impresses Jesus enough that he points her out. Not because of 

the coins she put into the collection receptacle but because He sees her joy in giving.  He sees her trust. This is what Jesus rejoices over.  This poor widow, with no significant financial gift to offer has the right heart.  She gives for the right reason.

 

Jesus’ is touched by her faithfulness.  He is impressed with her heart – not her financial giving.  God’s economy is different than the world’s economy.  God doesn’t care about the amount.  God cares about what’s going on in the inside.  Even those of us who think we have nothing to give –  do.  Our giving – whatever the size is valued by God if it’s given with the right heart, the right intention.  Jesus’ interest is in our motivation for giving – or not giving. 

 

No gift – whether time, talent, or money is too insignificant to give if it is given to God.  And what is truly given to God, regardless of how small or insignificant, is transformed into a pearl of great worth.

 

Jesus asks each of us to give all that we are to God.  This poor widow – this woman without status, without prestige, without wealth is THE model of discipleship.  By giving “all she had” – by giving “her whole life” this insignificant widow perfectly fulfills Jesus’ call to discipleship.  She lays down her whole life for God. 

 

So, what about us – what about you and me?  How much of ourselves are we willing to lay down for God?  Whether it’s our money, our time, our

talent, our plans, or our hearts, do you feel the true joy of giving – just like the widow….and just like Jane and Maria?  What does discipleship look like for you?   Jesus lays down his life for us…..and he invites us to do the

same for him. Amen.

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