Sunday, July 19, 2015

Being Attractive

Reverend Debbie Cato
Mark 6:30-34; 53-56
Peace  Presbyterian Church

July 19, 2015

Being Attractive


Does your view of the world match God’s view of the world?

Today’s passage says that “when Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had compassion on them, because they were like a sheep without a shepherd.” He had compassion on them because they were like a sheep without a shepherd.   The term “compassion” is explicitly used of Jesus’ attitude toward human beings in at least eight Gospel references. It is implicit in the entire witness of his life, including his healing ministry that is so prominent in this text. 

God is moved and affected by what happens in the world. That is good news!  God is concerned about the world and shares in its fate.  This is the very essence of God’s moral nature:  his willingness to be intimately involved in the history of humanity.  God has compassion on the world and the people that He created.  Compassion is the very essence of the One who created us and before whom all life is lived.[1]

When Jesus looked at the crowds that had gathered around him and had compassion on them, what was he feeling toward them? What does it mean to have compassion?   Having compassion for someone doesn’t mean you have pity for them; it’s not feeling sorry for them.  Pity is something you imagine or feel from a distance.  Pity puts you above the one who suffers.  Compassion literally means with-suffering.  With-suffering.  Another words, You cannot have compassion unless you suffer with those to whom you refer.  Compassion is unconditional solidarity with the ones whom you feel compassion toward.  You feel someone’s suffering with them – as if you are indeed suffering with them; feeling their hurt; feeling their pain; feeling their angst. 

Compassion is the mark of Christ’s identification with us, achieved at Golgotha – when Christ went all the way; hanging on the cross for us. He suffered physical pain and  humility – for us.  He had unconditional solidarity with humanity; God’s created people; you and me.  Christ was compassionate.  Compassion is the very core of our faith.

And so it’s no wonder that the Gospel of Mark speaks of people rushing and begging for an opportunity to be made whole through an encounter with Jesus.  People were attracted to him.  Mark  says, “They ran throughout that whole region and carried the sick on mats to wherever they heard he was.  And wherever he went – into villages, towns, or countryside – they placed the sick in the market places.  They begged him to let them touch even the edge of his cloak, and all who touched him were healed.”   People in all conditions were drawn to Jesus because of His compassion.  They came to Jesus sick and broken and hurt and they left transformed.  Their lives were never the same again.

God views the world with compassion.   Do you?


As Christians, we claim that Jesus of Nazareth was a good, generous, loving, and compassionate human being.  In saying this, we are also saying that God – the Source of our lives and the Source of all life – is also good and generous and loving and compassionate.[2] 


If we call ourselves Christians – Followers of Christ, then we too must be good and generous and loving and compassionate human beings.   Is this how the Body of Christ – the church, experiences the neediness of the world?  Is this how we experience the neediness of the world?

There is a whole generation missing from churches across the country.   People in their teens through their thirties have left the church.  And you might be surprised to hear that it’s not because they don’t believe in Jesus.  It’s because they reject the church.  Let me say that again, and please listen to what I say.  People – particularly young people in their teens through their thirties have left the church; they do not consider themselves Christians not because they don’t believe in Jesus, but because they reject the church. 

Dan Kimball is a pastor and author interested in the renewal of the church.     He spent several years researching and interviewing this missing generation, many of whom had grown up in church.  He wanted  to find out why they are no longer attending church.  He wanted to learn what their attitudes about church are; understand their beliefs about God ; their beliefs about Jesus.  After two years of talking and listening to what people had to say, he wrote a book called “They Like Jesus But Not The Church.[3]    It's an excellent book.  I recommend it.

In his book, Kimball says that when he asked people about Jesus, they responded positively.  He was surprised at how open and willing people
were to talk about Jesus; even people who did not call themselves Christians.  People said that Jesus was loving and compassionate.  They said he was welcoming and accepting of others.  People recognized that he taught right from wrong and people were transformed and showed a new way of living.  Kimball found that most people, including non-believers, are interested in learning more about Jesus.  This missing generation is attracted to Jesus.  This is good news!

When he asked them why they don't go to church, Kimball found people equally passionate and willing to share their thoughts.  When it came to talking about the Church and Christians in general, the people Kimball talked with were very outspoken.  Overwhelmingly, the same people who are open and positive about Jesus are critical and turned off by the church.  While they see Jesus’ as a loving, compassionate, accepting person, they find Christians to be the exact opposite.

The people Kimball talked with – people in their twenties and thirties; people that used to call themselves Christians and people who openly claimed not to be Christians, said that the Church isn’t about Jesus;  the Church wasn’t loving and welcoming and accepting.  The said the church was not compassionate.  This missing generation perceived the church, and Christians, as negative and more about what we are against than what we are about.  They saw the Church being about rules and regulations and about finger wagging and “we’re right and you are wrong”.  They saw the Church as unforgiving.  Most people reported that the Christian Church had become an organized religion with a political agenda – too often unwilling to accept differing political opinions.  People reported that the Church was not open to other beliefs and was oppressive to other cultural experiences.  People said they were turned off by the Church and Christians because the Church and Christians no longer  resemble Jesus.  Ouch.

It’s hard to blame them for coming to the conclusions that they come to. Often the most outspoken Christians have the most extreme positions and somehow it seems they speak for all of us.  Of course too often, even we in the church hear Christian speakers who have a national platform speak and we take what they say as truth so, why wouldn’t others?  And then there are churches like the church from Kansas that pickets outside military funerals holding signs with offensive messages such as "God Hates You" and "God Hates Fags," because they believe military deaths in Iraq and Afghanistan and other places are God's punishment for tolerance of homosexuality and a sign that the nation's destruction is imminent.[4]   I read yesterday that Westboro Baptist Church plans to picket the funerals for the four marines killed in Tennessee.  Where is the compassion?   

          Jesus views the world with compassion.   Does His church?

Separate studies have shown similar results.  People in the hospitality industry – people working in restaurants say that Sundays are their least favorite day to work!  They say they dread the after-church crowd.  Waiters and waitresses say that people come in after church to eat, dressed in their Sunday best and they are rude and demanding and disrespectful and leave terrible tips.  People are watching us!

Clerks in retail stores report that people wearing crosses are often the rudest, most impatient customers.  There’s nothing like seeing a car bearing a Christian symbol on the rode with an irate driver filled with rode rage. 

  
People were attracted to Jesus.  Are they attracted to His followers?

The missing generations from churches attracted to Jesus but they are not attracted to His Body.  Jesus’ own people are not attractive.  We have some repenting to do.

Criticisms and misconceptions of the church should matter to all of us.  After all, we are part of the church.  We are part of the body of Christ.  When part of us misrepresents Jesus, we all are misrepresented.  If part of us is misunderstood, we are all misunderstood.  We need to be about Jesus and not about stuff that Jesus was not about.

Jesus views the world with compassion.   Do we?

Unfortunately, today people in search of healing are far more likely to seek out therapists, physicians, self-help books, and prescription drugs than to enter a church building.  People outside the church do not recognize Christ’s healing presence within communities of faith.  If the church today is unrecognizable as a place of healing, then we need to reflect on what our mission and purpose in the world is and how we communicate the good news of God’s healing grace in this time and place”.[5]  

What would it be like if the Church was as compassionate as Jesus? Would the hurt and broken and sick and  in our world come running to Christ’s Church to find healing and wholeness?  Imagine how full our churches would be and how transformed the world would be! 

May His kingdom come on earth as it is in heaven.


[1]                         Feasting on the Word:  Year B, Volume 3.  Douglas John Hall. P260.
[2]               Ibid. 
[3]                      Kimball, Dan.  They Like Jesus but Not The Church.   Grand Rapids:  Zondervan.   2007/
[4]                      ABC World News.  March 2, 2011
[5]                      Feasting on the Word: Year B, Volume 3.  Karen Marie Yust.  p 264.

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