Rev.
Debbie Cato
Luke
14: 1; 7-14
Fairfield
Community Church
August 28, 2022
Let us pray: Eternal
God, your Word speaks truth into our lives. When we humble ourselves to listen,
you mature us with knowledge and strengthened our faith. Open us to your Word today,
so we might hear and embrace the message you intend for us. Amen.
Humility is
Best
At the end of Flannery O’Connor’s story “Revelation,” Mrs. Turpin, a
stately, self-righteous Christian woman, has a vision that turns her world, and
her prejudiced assumptions, upside down. A fiery streak in the dusk sky
transforms into a bridge from earth to heaven. Climbing the bridge, a “vast
horde of souls were rumbling to heaven” — souls Mrs. Turpin had earlier judged
beneath her. Poor White folks climb to heaven, clean for the first time in
their lives. Black laborers dressed in white robes proceed to salvation and
behind them a bunch of, what she had considered “freaks” and “lunatics.” At the
end of the heavenly procession Mrs. Turpin recognizes herself and her people,
marching with dignity behind the others, “accountable as they had always been
for good order and common sense and respectable behavior.” Confused, Mrs.
Turpin sees the “shocked and altered faces” of her people as, last in line to
heaven, their esteemed virtues burn away in the light of the setting sun.[1]
The kingdom of God has its own social and spiritual order. To presume
our place in that order is not only unwise but unfaithful.
At the beginning of Luke 14, Jesus gives a lesson on guest etiquette
with
broader theological and ethical meaning. In the New Testament, the “banquet” is a metaphor for the kingdom of heaven and the coming reign of God. When we are invited to this banquet, we should not presume a seat of honor. As Paul reminds us in Philippians 2, we are to emulate Jesus, who “though he was in the form of God, did not regard equality with God as something to be exploited, but emptied himself, taking the form of a slave … he humbled himself and became obedient to the point of death—even death on a cross” (Phil. 2:6-8). Jesus tells us that humility marks the model guest.[2]
In this parable, this set of parables actually, Jesus joins a leader of
the Pharisees, who we know are keeping Jesus under surveillance. The synagogue leader has offered Jesus hospitality
by inviting him to his home for table fellowship at a banquet and Jesus accepts
the invitation. When Jesus arrives, he
watches as the guests all rush to sit at the places of honor. Jesus suggests, as only Jesus can suggest, that
rather than distinguish themselves as honored guests and assume they belong at
the seats of honor, they should sit at more humble locations where they might
be invited to come and sit closer rather than be embarrassed and asked to move
further away. Or, even better, leave the
seats of honor for those of more humble means.
What a surprise to think you are a “nobody” and arrive and find the only
seats available are those that are places of honor!
I worked for World Vision for a while. They are an international humanitarian aid organization, probably best known for their child sponsorships. They also have ministries throughout the United States, mainly in large urban cities with areas of poverty and great need. I was the Director of Finance for Domestic Ministries for several years and had the opportunity to travel to the urban ministry sites. Wonderful experiences.
We had a ministry location in Appalachia where poverty was just astounding. It’s beautiful country – possibly the most beautiful I’ve seen. And yet the people lived in broken-down trailers without inside toilets or water. Many had roofs missing with just tarps. They are truly destitute. It was shocking to see these shacks, not really habitable on a beautiful, large piece of family, ancestorial land worth probably millions of dollars while the families are barely surviving. They have been coal miners and the coal mines were shut down and there is no work.
I spent a week there with other leaders from the corporate office with
the ministry team in Appalachia and we traveled around the area and met people
and came to understand their needs and the work of the local ministries in Appalachia.
In the evening, we would be entertained by local people playing their fiddles and singing blue grass music, we would have worship services, and just visit. It was a wonderful time. But the thing that stays in my memory the most were the meals. The community fed us dinner each evening in a style I will never forget. I have never seen so much food laid out. Of course it was all homemade and so delicious. They killed one of their pigs for us and BBQ’d it whole. We had pulled pork and BBQ’d ribs. Potato salad, baked beans, cole slaw, corn bread, and I don’t remember what else. Everything was homegrown and homemade. This was food for them to eat – to can and save for the winter. But they fed us. And they were so happy and excited to do so. They refused to serve themselves or eat until we were all seated with plates loaded up with food. Finally, they would join us at the table. There was so much laughter and talking as we enjoyed the meal together.
At first, I was
embarrassed. Maybe even ashamed that these
people who were literally dirt poor had made all this food for us. It felt like too much. They had killed a pig for us. We had chicken
another night and they had killed their chickens for our meal. They had harvested vegetables, cooked all day
for us – who had so much. I knew
it was a tremendous sacrifice for them.
Then I realized the joy it brought to them to have us there in their
community, to meet us and talk with us and get to know us. The pure love they put into their cooking and
their ability to feed us and have us enjoy their food.
The humility of the people I met in Appalachia was life changing for
me. They struggled to survive each and
every day. They were the poorest I have
ever met. Yet they appreciated
everything they had and they absolutely loved sharing it with us. And when we worshipped together, they
worshipped like I had never seen before.
They needed God. They needed his provision
in their lives. And they believed that He
was present and working in their everyday existence. This was 20 years ago, and the magic and love
and lessons of those days in Appalachia have stayed with me.
These meals in Appalachia were a picture for me of the practice of table fellowship and what it will be like in the Kingdom of Heaven when all gather together at one table. Luke 13:29 tells us that “people will come from east and west, from north and south, and will eat in the kingdom of God.” There will not be social boundaries or unjust divisions at this table. All will be welcomed, and all will eat together and enjoy table fellowship at God’s table. That’s what it was like those 4 days in Appalachia.
It's human nature to want the best spot; the best seat in the house. To sit by the most important or the most popular person. We want to be popular and important too. We want our lives to mean something. We want to be in the know, don’t we? But Jesus encourages us to forgo the presumption of privilege and assume a humble posture. To assume that we are no better; no more important than anyone else. And in God’s eyes, we aren’t. We are all created in God’s image. We are all loved the same by God.
But we have to be careful! Our
human ego is very clever and it’s possible
we may unintentionally seek out lower seats in order to look humble
while actually strategizing for self-exaltation. Taking
a low seat because one is humble is one
thing; taking the low seat as a way to move up is another. This entire message can become a sort of
cartoon if there is a mad dash for the lowest place, with ears cocked toward
the host, waiting for the call to ascend!
Is our mind being sneaky?! Trying
to mislead the onlooker. Look how humble
I am. But really, we are being
manipulative. Once again, Jesus looks to
the heart. Is our heart humble?
Luke 14 bears witness to an ordering of life under God’s reign. At God’s banquet, all are welcome; seats of honor are not defined or doled out by class, race, nationality or group identity. Assuming “people like us” are the guests of honor will only lead to our disgrace. As we seek to follow and emulate Christ, let the flag we wave be one of humility, and the call we follow that of verse 11: “All who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”[3] Let us pray:
Holy God, Help us to be humble of heart, remembering
that we are no better, no different, no more loved than any other. Help us to be more like Jesus each and every
day and live with a servant’s heart, seeking to serve rather than be lifted up
and honored. In Jesus name, Amen.
[1] https://pres-outlook.org/2022/08/twelfth-sunday-after-pentecost-august-28-2022/ Teri McDowell Ott.
[2] https://pres-outlook.org/2022/08/twelfth-sunday-after-pentecost-august-28-2022/ Teri McDowell Ott.
[3] https://pres-outlook.org/2022/08/twelfth-sunday-after-pentecost-august-28-2022/ Teri McDowell Ott.